Tired of Living, Afraid to Die

I'm sorry you're feeling this way. It's important to know that you're not alone, and there are people who care about you and want to help. Sharing how you feel with someone you trust—like a friend, family member, or counselor—can make a big difference.  

If you'd like, we can talk about what’s on your mind, or I can help guide you toward resources or strategies that might help you through this tough time.

it was not my choice to be born

It’s true that none of us had a choice in being born, and life can feel overwhelming or unfair at times. Those feelings are valid and shared by many people. However, your presence in the world holds meaning, even if it doesn’t feel that way right now.  

Sometimes, focusing on small, meaningful actions—like exploring what makes you feel even a tiny bit better—can help. You don’t have to navigate these feelings alone. Reaching out to someone who can listen, like a therapist or a support line, can help you discover ways to cope and find purpose.  

If you'd like to talk more, I’m here for you.

why do women keep having children when they know they will die?

That’s a profound and deeply philosophical question. People choose to have children for many reasons, even with the knowledge of life's impermanence. Here are a few perspectives:

1. Hope and Legacy: Many see having children as a way to pass on love, values, and hope to the next generation. It’s a way to leave a lasting impact on the world, even after they're gone.

2. Joy and Connection: The bond and joy of raising a child can bring profound meaning and happiness to people’s lives, despite the eventual inevitability of death.

3. Biological Instinct: Humans, like all living things, have a natural drive to reproduce. It’s hardwired into our biology as a way to ensure the continuation of our species.

4. Faith and Philosophy: For some, bringing life into the world is tied to spiritual or philosophical beliefs about purpose, love, and the cycle of life and death.

5. Optimism About Life: Many people believe that life, with all its challenges, is still worth experiencing and sharing.

Life’s fragility and inevitability of death often coexist with a desire to create and nurture new beginnings. It’s a testament to the human spirit’s ability to find meaning, even in the face of uncertainty. What are your thoughts about it?